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Jocko Willink, a former U.S. Navy SEAL, is known for having a predictable response when misfortune comes his way: he always responds by saying “good.”
He explains this philosophy in this two-minute video:
This is a very stoic way of thinking. The stoics believed that nothing in life is inherently “good” or “bad”, but merely whatever we make things to be.
In Jocko’s case, he takes it one step further. He declares everything to be good.
Mission got canceled? Good. You can focus on another one.
Got tapped out? Got beat? Good. You learned.
Unexpected problems? Good. You have the opportunity to figure out a solution.
He goes on to explain the power behind this way of thinking:
“When things are going bad, don’t get all bummed out, don’t get startled, don’t get frustrated. If you can say the word ‘good’, guess what? It means you’re still alive. You’re still breathing. And if you’re still breathing, you still have some fight left in you.”
I especially like how Jocko frames unexpected problems as opportunities. This reminds me of how Ryan Holiday says the obstacle is the way. It’s not something in the way. It literally is the way. It’s only by fighting through it and embracing the discomfort that you can become a better version of yourself.
To me, embracing this philosophy of “good” makes me immune to failures and setbacks. No matter what obstacles I face, there is some way to frame them as being a “good” thing.
Nobody reads my blog for the first six months? Good. Just means I have more time to focus on creating stuff that people actually want to read.
I get rejected for a data visualization job? Good. It means my skills aren’t good enough yet. I have room to improve. More knowledge to gain. More weaknesses to be eliminated.
Investment returns won’t help much on the way to saving my first $100k? Good. Just means I have to figure out how to earn a higher income. It means I have to cultivate patience.
I particularly like Jocko’s philosophy of “Good” because it gives you nowhere to hide. You can’t churn out excuses, voice complaints, or whine about how things are unfair.
You just have to look misfortune in the face, declare it to be “good”, and use it as an opportunity to grow.
The older I get, the more I see that life is mostly packed with failure after failure, with occasional moments of victory. The ability to look at a failure, call it “good”, and use it as an opportunity to learn and grow, is such an underrated skill that most people don’t possess. By calling every failure “good”, I put myself in a position to shake off setbacks and experience more victories.
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